• Posted by: Sanjeev
• 21 Sep, 2023

How to know your husband is cheating on you?

Marriage is a very sacred bond in India. Even the Indian laws and constitution consider marriage sacrosanct. In India marriage is more of a merger than a contract. Marriage is based on trust and it can only grow and prosper, on the ground of trust. It is a very beautiful alliance between two individuals, but to maintain this sanctity the two parties have to work on it. A breach in marriage can result in the marriage ending on a sour note. Incompatibility, miscommunication, infidelity, domestic abuse, addiction, financial misconduct, intoxication, impotency, behavioral disorders, family interference, etc. are reasons that can lead to a broken marriage. 

In every marriage, the couple should be trustworthy. If there is a lack of trust in a marriage then it is a matter of serious concern. Cheating can end a relationship. According to research, 25% of married men sleep with someone else other than their spouse.  This can happen when individuals get bored with each other or they feel emotionally disconnected.

Cheating or Infidelity can be devastating in a marriage. There are many signs that can inform you about your spouse's extramarital affair or fraud committed by your spouse behind your back.

Reduced Intimacy: If your spouse suddenly seems to have no interest in sex despite being in good health both physically and mentally, this is one of the often tell-tale signs that your husband is cheating. Sex plays a very important role in marriage. It is a well-known principle that a new affair has far more intensity than an old marital relationship. The sexual energy of your husband may well be directed somewhere else if he is not having a good sex life with you. 

He brings his phone with him everywhere: Nowadays mobile phones are a must for every adult. Mobile phones contain a wealth of information, including text, photos, video, e-mail, etc. While it's no surprise that an adult brings their mobile phone practically everywhere, if your husband takes his mobile into the shower, or on the smallest trip to take out the trash, it's not hard to guess that your partner doesn't want you to see something. Being protective and possessive about your mobile phone means your husband is desperately hiding something from you or he is afraid that a message may pop up and show on screen anytime.

Loosing romance in marriage: Like sex romance and emotional connection are also very important in the institute of marriage. In a healthy relationship where a couple is having love for each other, they are expected to shower affection, praise, and compliments on each other. A loving and doting husband always remains cheerful in the company of his wife. He always keeps teasing and pulling the leg of his wife. A loving husband always enjoys the company of his wife. If there is fading romance in marriage, then there has to be some other woman in your husband's life.

Suddenly he is taking care of himself: It can be nice to see that your significant other has put some work into their health and appearance. Your husband suddenly spends long hours at the gym. It may not be for you. Although grooming is an essential part of human well-being, getting very choosy about appearance suddenly does raise suspicion. He is paying more attention to his looks. This should be a sign that he wants to look better in front of someone else. Dressing and appearance are always related to creating an impression of goodness. 

He is spending lavishly:  Your husband's credit card bill is more than a few months old. In many affairs, it is necessary to spend a lot to keep the spark alive.
 
Pick up the fight: When your husband suddenly starts seeing flaws in every little thing of yours, it means that he has found someone else to escape the monotonous relationship of marriage.

He accuses you of cheating:  Attack is the best form of defense is an age-old theory. Your husband may try to accuse you of infidelity, in order to distract your energy into defending yourself. 

He showers you with gifts: We all love gifts. It feels nice to come home with some gifts, but a sudden deluge of gifts can be a major sign that your husband is cheating on you. A guilty conscience can often lead cheaters to exaggerate themselves to their spouses. 

Keeping passwords over electronic devices: It is a belief there should be no secrets between a married couple. But, what if your husband suddenly keeps the password on almost all his personal electronic devices. It's a  sign that there is something fishy that he wants to hide from you. Electronic devices are the key to communication in any affair, no matter how secret or clandestine it is, involves a lot of communication. Hiding this communication becomes essential, hence passwords. 

Not giving time to you: In any marriage the more time you spend with each other, the more your relationship grows. But when your husband doesn't spend enough time with you and wants some space, that means your husband enjoys someone else's company. Moreover, he is spending his time with her and making it a quality time.

Comparing you with some other woman: When there is a rift in married life, your husband keeps comparing you with another woman. And keep noticing every little flaw in you. Comparing openly means, he doesn't like your qualities and is openly endorsing the virtues of other women. 

Talking about any other woman: Does your husband always talk about any other woman? The woman might be a friend, colleague, boss, or junior. It is an open secret that when someone likes a person, he loves talking about him all the time. 

Coming home late: Every relationship needs time. If your husband is committed somewhere else, he is bound to give time in that relationship. The time which is meant for you and your children goes to some other women. In some cases of the extramarital affair which we have investigated, we have found that the cheating husband talks over the phone, sitting inside his car but does not return home timely.

Giving false alibi: Till the relationship between you and your husband turns sour, you will like to keep track of him every moment. When you start suspecting him and matters have not aggravated much, your husband is answerable to you. In such cases, he has no option but to lie about his whereabouts. Many times when he is with his paramour, he may not even pick up the phone. Later, he may give some false alibi.

There are also many more signs of cheating. But if you are in doubt of being cheated, then it must be an alarm to wake you up from the cozy deep slumbers. It's not ok to play a blind woman in your relationship and be a victim. You need a private investigator to find out the evidence of a cheating husband. Your instincts are enough to listen and step ahead. DDS detectives has immense expertise in solving such cases. 

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